Tuesday, 13 October 2015

Feelings of Powerlessness


Ever felt powerless while out and about with a friend? Powerless as in your opinions or words aren't heard-that if you stop walking with them you would be left behind. You do call them 'friends'of course but you wonder if those words do actually mean what you would just love for them to mean? Why is it that you always end up with people who do this to you in your time here as an earthling? You stop being their friend when you disobey their 'orders' but they never seem to pay heed to any of your needs or your self respect and regularly proceed to trample over it.

I believe though the friends may be a part of the problem, a bigger part of the problem is that guy/gal in the mirror when you look at it head on.Be vocal about your needs and note that self interests should never be put on the back burner unless you are sure your friend will do the same for you as and when the need arises.Sometimes people take you for granted because you let them. Feeling powerless and not having control of your actions can be a frustrating experience.A quote from the movie 'Dead Poet's Society' which puts it aptly-"you must strive to find your own voice, cause the longer you wait to begin the less likely you are to find it at all."  

Welcome Reader!

As we go about our daily routines everyday ever wondered what it feels like to be someone else just so you could understand them and their problems . Their shoes, their world , their perspective and their problems.Life declassified , right here , right now.

INTRODUCTION

Most people live in their shells afraid from the world , its people and circumstances for far too long to actually ever come out and reveal themselves for who they are, with their perfectly human imperfections and problems out there for the world to see. Let us change this....Lets build a better and more connected and understanding society today by making the necessary changes in ourselves and letting our insecurities and fears be seen. We also tend to neglect many wondrous things we come across in life which we don't really recognize or appreciate until they are gone. Let your life stories out the world is listening (at least I am :) ).

REASON FOR CREATION OF BLOG

To stimulate discussion on problems I face and by extension you may also be facing in day to day life in relation to human interactions. I am also interested in what difficulties you face as you go through this arduous , bitter-sweet and magical journey called life. Discussion could also center around what little things are beautiful and we take for granted.As a matter of fact any story relating to life will do as long as it is true.

FAQ: "I STILL DON'T GET IT , WHY HAS THIS BLOG BEEN CREATED???!!!"

To talk about yours and my problems, our life,love, heartbreaks,pains,joys and everything else along the way. I believe this is a way to get more than one life experience from this one life we have .Life stories are usually more beautiful than fictional ones as fiction is limited by author's imagination by reality is not.This blog is hence for people to be comfortable with their own insecurities by knowing a large number of people have the same issues as theirs and hence its OK as they are - Imperfection are what define an art piece.